Thanks to our technological progress, economic crime is increasing, but there are those who have the simplicity of journalism and not copy 101 of the 80s, and paste it? Yes, a Michigan man was so brilliant, physically recorded on the documents and a signature away nearly $ 500,000! According to FBI reports, the economic losses from crime exceed $ 300 billion a year. Lower than the percentage of children and families, has been shifted to the left and facepick up the pieces, or perhaps even continue to crumble and fall into a spiral up and up again to recover.
The FBI missed lost directly as well as the SEC and, of course, the records were seized and a job. With children aged between two and a half years and not one, more than one life was destroyed. The effects of a weak man stretched on the streets and in homes and hearts of many people. Perhaps the most experienced criminal lawyer saved some embarrassing moments(No printing, no handcuffs), but the points are added in the same way, with strict guidelines sanctions. It took two years to process the event was delivered and the sentence of 30 months, but only the most suitable day for this family, coming down so much confidence in their faith .... Ash Wednesday, 2004, running in tandem at the opening of the Passion of Christ.
Interestingly, in this case decided to commit wire fraud dad while his wife at the time she was pregnantwith her second child, and she was in her dream home after climbing the career ladder moved hard! Many of the therapy sessions have been modified and shown to be beneficial to all, but does not prepare the family for years to come. This will hopefully shed light on how relations with the maintenance of the children left in similar cases.
The last months were a time of family bonding. A time when not only the creation Treasuring memories and importantany time of day. Perhaps this is the way we all live our lives, if a family member heading to prison or not! Were special events such as outings to the zoo in Toledo, Mackinac and Iceland, as well as dinner with a Catholic priest and only provided a lot of family fun! If there is ever a moment of peace in our lives was to take a lot of trouble for the future.
D-Day was August 24, 2004, and the day of release, even if for some indefinite time, came from 14 August 2006. Asuntil the father is not in the "hole" could have thrown a reduced sentence for good behavior. The children had grown up and dad said, "to go to school!" Too little for the truth that seemed best for three to five years to understand.
So he went with his wife and sister-in-law, for six hours by car northwest of Virginia, where he was covered by the morning mist and the scenery breathtaking. West Virginia University, was a few miles away, often felt theFans cheer during a football match.
The first visit was an expedition by himself on the track, the ride would be so strong, drawn from nature, ritual. More importantly, no one could prepare for your first trip to a Federal prison camp let alone prepared for children. Especially at a large facility, the detainees were housed in the 1000 white-collar crime and the majority was not criminal. Drug trafficking was the norm, but has not been immune to serious crime, in which theThe prisoners were transferred there from higher security facilities, such as the time she served was reduced by less than a protective device, without fences and more freedom has been rewarded. You could go directly to the next site, but suffer the consequences, of course.
When children are preparing for their first trip there are some things to keep in mind. To maximize a weekend and the lowest possible cost to drive all day Friday to visit Friday evening works best. This allows a full day tourSaturday evening with a single hotel. If two nights are in the budget then the search of local areas of interest to children such as cinema, library, or simply swimming in the hotel. During two years of visiting program, road trips take a lot of adventures with vomiting in the car, and many service stations and pull off to the side of the road if they do not stop the rest, if a child is potty training. Minivan with DVD players or portable DVD are great,electronic games, magic pen pad, and snacks of course!
After many discussions with the therapists, we came to a wide variety of things, the absence of two years to prepare, receive the love that existed and maintain relationships that had been built so far, is the following, which put into play:
1 Written Word: Is there a better way to keep in touch as the traditional paper and pencil. For passengers, that's it! No computer, but only a pencil in his hand, and dress in layers, each buffercold that lingers around the building block of cement. Trying to find consolation in touch with family and friends, while the hand is hard, hard stools and uncomfortable, there is limited lighting, music from other row inmates in the background and the tears running down his face as he Photo of children seen. .... lonely orphans.
Children can also a. stationary paper specifies that makes it even more exciting to receive are sent. There is usually an artist among theGroup sales of a mere book of stamps, you can send to their loved ones and drawings! At the end of the stay, different binders to keep these treasures have perhaps never seen. Just walk away, as the memories fade and will stay for some lively as today's headlines, others hidden. However, there are, and sadness and emotions I will never forget the pain behind them.
b. A handful of greeting cards were purchased and pre-written for every occasion. For example, to be healthy,congratulations on / or school and sports, missing, etc. In addition, ribbons and stickers purchased, in order to count the cards as a special treat. All these points have been organized in an accordion-type folder. Dad has signed all the papers and put some notes in it.
c. To support the school / teacher ...
Voice Recognition 2: According to Mary DiPaolo, MA insured, LLP, the sound of a voice of the parents of a child that there is still a tie, and, where appropriate, the parent will return and lifeback to "normal" one day.
a. Take a trip to Build-A-Bear Workshop was to take the voice of Dad in a cuddly animal rolled, and there was a whim, connected! This lasted only 1 year then you must use creativity to run Dad's voice to the recording device, no recording device they are visiting the prison camps at the federal level to get permits.
b. If you look at the fact that someone can listen to every word you say the phone calls, and helpFactor of realism. Weather numbers can be purchased on a monthly basis and passengers have to wait to ask for a free phone number. This is a pre-registration indicating that the call is from a federal prison and then a pause before a voice to actually be here. On a caller ID, will be as "unknown."
3 Visuals: Perhaps nothing is more stimulating to the mind than we can see what they do. If Daddy is not home so can have children for the next best thing to adjust, see his face in a photograph or a videoby other means of visual presentation!
Among the other family photos were, of course, the day of release. Photos can be taken as well during his detention in the field. The detainees, tickets for this use. Money can be wired to the occupants, personal hygiene, food, clothing, stamps, buy batteries and other misc. Elements. The wiring is the best way to go, how to send money orders what is allowed can be a long time, to take account of the occupants and beat detainees often do not know who isout.
b. A "Dad" card construction paper was to sit at the table. This was alternated with a head shot 8x10 photo. The boys also gave his dad a paper plate of food .... desperate for her voice, touch and laugh all the time trying to please and comfort him. It is not those who need to be embraced?
c. Video ~ the months immediately before his departure, we made a home video of just day to day things. There was also a DVD of a family outing in the previous phasesthe year that everything was special! Long beach, laughing, and just the whole family!
4 Ministry / Faith: When Faith is the evidence of things invisible, as not of faith, not what you see?
a. Angel Tree, a ministry of Prison Fellowship ~ The holidays are a sad moment and with the help of programs such as Angel Tree, should not be so. When my children saw the bag with gifts left outside our front door, she was enthusiastic and the tears streaming down my face. Even today, myMy daughter remembers the tears of joy and even if pulling on a deeper meaning of the season, has contributed to the generosity of fellow Christians simply the emotional strength it was. The label reads: "I miss you I'll be home soon I love you, Daddy ..."
b. There is always a time and a place to know the Lord, but of course if you have a lot of time on their hands, to say the prison, there is a better chance of it happening. More faith can always help, even if only temporarily. The right toAlthough limited and restricted at birth appear to some as an act of martyrdom and a hypocrite or a fraud, others. However, there are benefits for children when father draws strength and looks to the ground, so that in written communication, visits and phone calls. The books have been significant, while his father helped stay: the cup, drink NOWEN, The Alchemist, Coelho, A Course in Miracles, Schucman & Thetford. This can be a time for a man to grow in spirit, even iftemporarily. The friends find friends for life, because it is something very deep and common share - sin, sorrow, regret, fear, sadness, loneliness, abandonment and loss.
c. Choosing the right friends and support system (s) boy ~ 5 ½ years, losing his father can be devastating. If the relationship is strong when the father leaves the more difficult it becomes for the child's social function. We were lucky that occurred during an accident during a game on their parentswhich rise to the occasion, but the child vs. brushing his needs and comfort with tough love. People of faith are the foundation and the foundation of love and what children in this situation has left behind a lot of trouble! A mother has been able to care for the children to build their strength and even in this situation, in many ways have been explored and used as international women Toastmaster small groups, therapy Christian places of worship / study Bible and personalNetworking and creating prayer groups (s).
Visitation 5: ". How to prepare for your first visit to Camp federal prison" This was once a topic for a speech in Toastmasters International, entitled It was discovered that a speech funny, because the government has all the requirements for the visit. It is wonderful that this can happen, but the guards could also be Northwest Airlines ticket agent, because you do not care for visitors and are clearly in the power trip!We only see a few highlights.
a. Regular visiting hours are from 5.30 am Friday 08:00 a clock, clock Saturday 08.00 am-4: 12:00, and Sunday 8:00 clock-4: 00pm, more federal and days, although some prisoners to work in those days . If visitors do not do it before time "count" or a cut-off time, will not be involved or to wait outside. If the "count" occurs when you prepare your holiday with the kids, to tell a story, because dad is in line and be counted with other "students". Ifspray too much, you can not visit at all. Although driven 7 hours in four states and the children are restless in the car, there is no compassion. Note that the first (there are a lot of firsts), there is an "approved" by visitors filling out paperwork and waiting for approval. Children of prisoners are on the list automatically. The first visit we had a family member was not "clarified", they had to wait outside while the others visited. Imagine driving all thatAllowed to run rampant and not in tears and emotions consume beyond what you ever imagined! You should also make sure to come early or before the "count" because it will be a line, and then you have to wait until they call the prison and they do as they please extreme.
b. There is a dress code, of course. Or you leave the jacket in the car or put it in a closet, because it may seem. Women may not wear tank tops, short skirts or dresses that reveal too much.No shorts except for children. He wants you to go and change it back if you or the next day or the next time
c. What to bring - you can not bring something to the occupants during a visit to friends and family can be a day to say "No, I can with them this or that!" You mail will be read, checked, etc. If you are visiting for the day, there are vending machines and is boiled (a bit 'of sarcasm here) to buy!Your money goes into a plastic bag, preferably coins, because the machine is not working change. Not shocked when Dad uses junk food as a four-hour session you've ever seen him eat in his life! The food cooked in the kitchen, no butter, salt, flavor, and often the sweet stale, expired food you've ever eaten! So at this point, looks like a machine something like a Thanksgiving!
d. On the positive side, there are board games,Playing cards and some toys for the kids to play and maybe a TV (maybe even a VCR) or two, depending on the size of the plant. You only need to pass the germs, missing parts, and who gets to keep the games for the whole visit. This is an advantage of a smaller and newer stocks. A transfer is not necessarily a bad thing. Only a few months my father was to create a new minimum security camp, where together with a high security prison facility for the Mecca of the men was transferred to a maximumSafety of women and, finally, a super-max underground maximum safety.
After June 2004, when the Supreme Court ruled in Blakely v. Washington, sentencing guidelines were not applied uniformly. Even more so, in January 2005, the Supreme Court ruled in United States v. Booker that the mandatory application of the Federal Sentencing Guidelines violate the right to jury trial under the Sixth Amendment. After the hope that these cases would fall and reduce itsSet the final judgments were without hope, these children were orphans for 24 months.
One factor that came into play for this fall are the regional differences in implementation practices. The rate of imposition of the sentences below average and above average for first offenders, even after Booker raised. The new methodology implemented in response to Booker uses 11 categories designed to collect and report the nuances of sentence with the guidance system consulting. Lawyershoping here, but their efforts unnoticed and broken dreams were destroyed by a faster return.
Who is left to keep the home front plays a crucial role. A portrait positive imprisoned parent can only benefit the future relations between the members of the family, as hard as it could be. Sick thoughts and words can be treated in therapy or somewhere out of earshot of children. If they are so happy with that offense, except the thing that countsmost of the family, is strong in the long run.
People make mistakes. Some awarded, some not. The decisions are taken and that no choice at all choose not to have a choice. Some are caught, if the wrong choice is made and some do not get. Could live with the knowledge to commit a crime and get away with it? In this case, he thought the criminal, for a time that came away with "it". He had only taken about six months after the client moved their accounts.He lived in sin and swept under the carpet. Choices.
Children are the unfortunate victims helpless in these cases. Spouses suffer emotionally, financially and physically, but usually gather strength so that these children who are leaving care. Order an entire family a day after a break. Going to church and look around to all the other families, fathers crying, silently. Thoughts of divorce wander in and out of his mind. Anxiety attacks growSin is welcome at first, and possibly rejected. Humility is an acquired condition.
He humiliated, that hunger and then feeding you with manna which neither you nor your ancestors had known, to teach that people do not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of the Lord.
Deuteronomy 08:03
